Monthly Archives: August 2011

Positive Thinking #4

26 Aug

As I move on, more challenges are thrown in my path and sometimes I wonder if the story I tell is a really fascinating book that I read, not my life. So after my 3rd hand injection to release my seized up joint, I took up my tennis racquet again, held on tighter to the ski handle, reached for that attitude and No Excuses. There’s always a way. That is how card # 4 was born.

No Excuses. There’s always a way. Choose to be happy. Pay forward kindness. Balance. Sandwich comments -good,request,good. Speak with your actions-be a role model, save thank you cards – know that you are loved. celebrate everyday. Don’t complain – step up to the plate. You’re 1-5 down in the set – focus on the comeback one step at a time – that’s life. Don’t be afraid of embarrassment – you’ll miss the chance of success. When life throws you curve balls – learn to hit them back. No need for medals – fulfillment comes from within. Miracles are not always what you wish for – they may be right in front of you. Give compliments. Give a card – because. Paint sunflowers. Wear your heart on your sleeve – believe in yourself. Think of everything you love. If you focus on the negative, you miss the thousand positive things that can happen – take risks. Looking after everyone, includes yourself. Fear is the opposite of trust. Make a difference. Be the one. Make someone’s day. Exercise cleanses the chaos. Exercise the mind- keep learning. Believe strengths are bigger than weaknesses. Stay grounded.

There are stories to all these phrases. As you come across them it is helpful to recite them in your head as the situation arises. When you fall down 10 times you must get up 11 times without excuses but with the strength of an army of friends. The power of all those great people give us self confidence. I want to be part of that army to help more people stand up for the 11th time too.

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Create

15 Aug

Keeping myself in the “good zone” is an art of discovery. One thing that worked so well for me was art and creating. I spend time painting, writing, expressing and making cards from my art work. I sew and even make inspirational signs, now that I learned how to work the complex mitre power saw 2 weeks ago. Yes, always afraid of that shark-like power tool, I thought, if I could get through all I have done, I certainly can learn a power saw.
An unused sleeping cabin overlooking the water was my perfect escape. My husband fitted it with shelves and outlets, fans and overhead lighting, a deck for my painting and now you know where to find me….
I love my cottage for more than just the water and peace, but now you can find me in my little studio – rain or shine – pure happiness

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I Love…….

13 Aug

I was given a bag as a gift. On the front and the label was the instructions to write ” I love ….” fill in the blank. I thought I knew what to write but then realized there were so many things that I loved. I didn’t realize until I thought about it. They are simple pleasures of everyday life that make it so special, and discoveries that adversity has open my eyes to see.
I can choose what to focus on in my head : those little demons that play back last year’s terrifying movie of never-ending hurdles that still throw me curve balls or look at all the gifts that life brings me every day…. I love these things. Just stop for a minute and fill in the blank too. I bet you can’t stop at one thing.

I Love……….

I love Mark

I love my cottage

I love life

I love tennis

I love my family

I love my sister and how close we are now

I love the deep sincerity in my friends

I love wine at sunset on the lake

I love reading at 4pm on Saturday on the dock

I love sleeping in

I love the smell of fresh coffee on the weekend

I love lying down after a long day’s work

I love baking on a rainy day

I love my art studio

I love deep powder snow

I love pulling up out of the water on my slalom ski

I love nailing a great wakeboard jump

I love dressing up to go out

I love surprises

I love giving

I love Christmas

I love diving in on a hot day

I love the sound of thunder when you are safe

I love making a difference in people

I love good red wine

I love dancing to great music

I love quiet time

I love Nano, my dog

Write your own “I love…” list

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